I don’t hate men. For real, I don’t. I grew up with a father whom I adored despite being profoundly flawed. I am blessed to know many amazing, talented, considerate men whose entire lives have been about giving to others. I’m not quite sure where people got the idea that I hate men. But I was accused of it last night in a discussion on a friend’s Facebook by a former classmate I haven’t seen in at least twenty-five years. To be honest, this is the first time I can remember having a conversation with him ever. I know who he is because my parents bought our house from his family in 1978, but we were both small children then. I was peripherally aware of him having a crush on me in high school, because everyone told me. I can recall at least one painfully awkward encounter in the hallway when he deliberately knocked my books out of my arms in an obvious attempt to break the ice and have an interaction with me. Tha