Talent is
overrated.
And I say
this having been told I was a talented writer all my life.
We all have
this image of the talented person. Born with a gift, a natural ability to play
basketball, the piano, sing, act, whatever it is they do well. They enjoy a brief spurt of elementary school
attention, then…nothing. Because they
move on to high school, or college, and now there are others who are just as talented
as they are, maybe even more. Most of
them fade into obscurity like everyone else.
Yes, there
are those blessed few, the ones that are plucked from the stage of a middle
school production of Grease to become
an Academy Award winning actor, but the odds of that happening to the average
American is probably one in like, twenty million. The odds of it happening to you is slim. Leaving you with a broken dream and a vague
sense that you could have been a contender, had the stars aligned.
Talent
begets laziness. Growing up, parading
through school with the label of “smart” and a “good writer,” I was able to
score good grades with ease. When I
reached high school, and found it not so easy, I settled for average grades
instead. I never learned to work for it,
and that is the failing of talent. When
you think you’ve got a gift, that you’re chosen, that you’re special, you have
this tendency to kind of wait around for the hand of God to single you
out. Meanwhile life is passing you by.
Human beings
naturally seek get the greatest award with the least amount of effort. When you become accustomed to being rewarded
for very little, the desire to work for it is diminished. Such is the failing of talent.
Without
being paired with hard work, talent is not only useless, it infuses you with a
sense of entitlement. Not only do you
not work hard, you don’t think you need
to work hard; after all, you’re special. We
all know special people who did nothing with their lives and went nowhere. That glorious singer who now belts her heart
out at Thursday night karaoke, the bar echoing with the unrequited promise of
what might have been.
A few years
ago, I took a course in getting published.
The instructor said something that resonated with me: Being a successful
writer has very little to do with how much talent you have. It has to do with how hard you’re willing to
work.
Hard work
trumps talent, every time. Especially
when you discover, like I have, that writing a book is the easy part. Convincing people to read it is the hard
part. You can be the most talented
writer in the world. You could have
written the best book. But without making
an effort to market it, it will molder in the vault with everything else.
The measure
of your success is not how well you can do something, but how badly you want to
do it.
I worked
with a few other writers at a past job, that, to date, haven’t really gotten their
careers off the ground. They’ve fallen
into the I’m So Talented trap. They are of the ilk that believe they deserve
a medal for gracing the world with their special presence. During the time I worked with them, I heard a
lot about how very talented everyone always said they were. I personally saw zero evidence of this talent.
The writing I saw from them was mediocre. Did
this mean they were not, in fact, talented?
No. It means they weren’t as talented
as they thought. In their minds, they
were so talented that people should be throwing money at them just because they
had great ideas. This created a sense of
entitlement, which in turn created resentment, because they felt owed special
recognition and weren’t getting it. They felt they were better than everyone else,
but frustratingly, no one agreed.
They saw
themselves as being above the rest of us rabble. So much so, that one of them told a friend of
mine not to worry, once he made it big, he’d hire her to be his personal
assistant. She was offended. He was so wrapped up in his own vision of
himself as a talented, misunderstood artist, he didn’t see anything wrong with
degrading others. My friend should be
grateful he was willing to give her such a terrific opportunity. She was just an ordinary no-talent, right? Meanwhile, he held a lower position then she did
at our company, and had never done shit with his alleged talent other than blow
a lot of hot air.
He saw
himself as extraordinary, better than her, when he’d done nothing to elevate
himself above her. This is what talent
does. It turns you into a pretentious
nitwit going on ad nauseum about your talent and how you’re going to make it big
someday because you’re special.
The take
away from this blog post? You don’t have
to be talented to succeed. It doesn’t
mean a hill of beans if your fourth grade teacher thought you wrote the best
compositions or your ninth grade drama coach thought you sucked. Talent is no substitute for hard work. Practicing and working hard at your craft
will trump talent, always. Remember the
old story of the tortoise and the hare?
The hare was so arrogant he figured he’d beat the tortoise without any
effort; and the tortoise eventually overtook them and won. Talent only takes you so far.
If you have
a dream, go for it. It doesn’t matter if
you’re talented, or if someone else can do it better. What matters is how badly you want it.
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